GRADINGSYSTEMOFWOMENININDIA
AnIndianwomenisalwaysportraitasanidealorstandardicontofollow.
Shehasnorighttobeherself.Werearourdaughterstogetfitintothe
normssetupbythesocietyforher.Andbecauseparentshavetaughther
thissoitbecomesanidealthingforhersoshenevercomplainsandtries
andstrugglehardwholeherlifetogetfitintothosebaselessnormswithout
havinginsightthatsheneednottodothistoher.
Ontheotherhand,ifItalkaboutboystheonlyexpectationfromthemisto
doaniceearningjobandifhefailstodothatthenalsohegetsgrant
becausebeingaboyisagreatthinginitselfagainasperthesocietyset
norms.Onthecontrarywerearourboysthewaytheyareandnotaccording
tosomestandardsbecausesocietyisdevoidofnormsformen.
Ifagirldosomethingwhichisnotwithinthelimitsofnormsshewillbe
gradedasB,CorDgradeladywhereasnosuchgradingforboys.
Accordingtoascientificresearch,ithasbeenprovedmanytimesthata
femalebrainhasmoregreymatterthanmaleswhichmakesafemalemore
intellectualthanmalesonanygiventask.
WomengradingsystemisexistingfromagesinourcountryandIwillnot
blamemalesforitbecauseasIexplainedearlierthatmendoesn'thavethat
muchintelligencetodoallthis.Womenareonlycauseoftheirown
degradingsystem.Womenareempoweredwithrightstochangethesociety
bynatureitself.Sheistheonewhocreatessocietyandcanpropagateit.
Wecan'trepairthelosshappenedtothissocietyasaresultofwomen
gradingsystembutcanputinoursharetochan1.Don'tfeedkidswithpreconceivedideas
Kidslearnbyobservationandtheybecomewhattheyseeandthenthey
createasociety.Don'tteachyourkidstobehavegenderspecificlikedon't
stopyourlittleherofromcryingbysayingthat"strongboydoesn'tcry,don't
crylikeagirl"don'tusesuchphrasesitaffectstheiremotionalquotientand
asaresulttheygetamsgthatcryingisgirlsjobanditislowgradetaskto
doandtheywillstayinstressbutwillNVRcryouttheirpaintoanyone
becauseitwastaughttohimbyhisparents.
Cryingandcomplainingarenaturalventilators,don'tdegradealadyifshe
doesitanddon'tpraiseamanifhedoesn't
2.Stopgendertargettedrearing.
Helpgrowingurkidsasanindividualandnotasaboyoragirl.Don'ttellgethesocietyinfollowing
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