GRADINGSYSTEMOFWOMENININDIA AnIndianwomenisalwaysportraitasanidealorstandardicontofollow. Shehasnorighttobeherself.Werearourdaughterstogetfitintothe normssetupbythesocietyforher.Andbecauseparentshavetaughther thissoitbecomesanidealthingforhersoshenevercomplainsandtries andstrugglehardwholeherlifetogetfitintothosebaselessnormswithout havinginsightthatsheneednottodothistoher. Ontheotherhand,ifItalkaboutboystheonlyexpectationfromthemisto doaniceearningjobandifhefailstodothatthenalsohegetsgrant becausebeingaboyisagreatthinginitselfagainasperthesocietyset norms.Onthecontrarywerearourboysthewaytheyareandnotaccording tosomestandardsbecausesocietyisdevoidofnormsformen. Ifagirldosomethingwhichisnotwithinthelimitsofnormsshewillbe gradedasB,CorDgradeladywhereasnosuchgradingforboys. Accordingtoascientificresearch,ithasbeenprovedmanytimesthata femalebrainhasmoregreymatterthanmaleswhichmakesafemalemore intellectualthanmalesonanygiventask. WomengradingsystemisexistingfromagesinourcountryandIwill...
Self critical perfectionism exibhit itself as an intense desire to be perfect at everything combined with higher sensitivity to other people's expectation and percieved criticism if they are not met. We often end up hearing the following dialogues for women in society. 1."Oh wow what an ideal lady ,she takes care of her kids so nicely and manages her house so perfectly" 2. She is a very beautiful but whats the use if she can't do household chores. 3."What if her inlaws behaved in certain ways with her its her duty to adjust and manage". 4. "Incase husband says something to a wife she should not utter a word because then the things can take bad shape and her marriage can be at stake" 5.Oh my GOD ! she doesn't know how to cook...Her mother has not taught her anything etc etc . The list is endless and countless but if we come to men then you will end up hearing very different dialogues. 1.He is a very good hearted person. 2.He is a very kind or cr...